Okay I have been really busy for the past few weeks, as predicted. The weekends too because I think I have finally reached that Daddy age which is like the Atlantis. Just when you had given up hope of seeming desirable to anyone ever again-some people find something in you which is all that they ever wanted. 😄
No don't get me wrong. I do not look anything remotely like a Daddy or a Bear or any such thing even remotely. I was never a "ruggedly" "manly" "macho" "hunk" when I was young-er nor could you exactly call me "chocolaty". I was just a regular guy. I still am. So this is really unbelievable and surprising to me. And I have been ignoring when guys on Grindr have called me sexy/handsome etc. I still don't believe them. (And I ask you to not to have any expectations if you see/meet me ever).
So in any case, when this guy said hello and sent over the photos of a guy who would be more suited on the cover of a fashion magazine I thought that he was sending me someone else's photos. I have had that before. This town is a school and university town, so we have scores of twinks. Most of them live in hostels and are only starting to experiment or are still at the "curious" stage. Many Grindr profiles are therefore unsurprisingly without photos. Some are paranoid enough to send across fake photos.