Fuck! I’m reading a book which is basically my story. Is this what being “triggered” means? The main character is not moving out of the relationship and I’m feeling so low. There’s still 4 hours to go. Was reading about traumas. I think the end of my relationship was a huge life changing trauma for me. I was too naive.

To avoid being loyal/non-promiscuous, gay men will use the excuse that being monogamous is “heteronormative” behaviour.